Bible believers approach the topic of homosexuality in varied and cautious ways, but for two different churches in Spokane, Wash., their answers to whether gays and lesbians can be a part of the church community are simple.
Dan Jarms has been the pastor of Faith Bible Church for seven years. Born and raised in Cheney, Wash. by an atheist father and a Catholic mother, Jarms grew up with unsure about faith, he said. At 19, Jarms attended a Christian basketball camp where he heard the gospel being preached.
“I heard that Jesus died to pay for my sin in my place,” Jarms said. “That was the first time I heard that. Even I had gone to church plenty before that, but I finally understood the idea.”
Jarms overcame his struggle with certain personal sins he committed, motivated by conviction he felt from the Lord to turn over his life to Him, he said.
Ever since, Jarms has been involved with Bible teaching and joined a church he felt taught the scriptures as God’s Word. Turning to 1 Corinthians 6:9, the Bible’s teaching about homosexuality is clear, he said.
“Our [the church’s] stance is that homosexuality is a sin, like adultery or sex before marriage. We treat it as a sin common to man,” Jarms said.
Instead of turning away the homosexual people who occasionally attend Faith Bible Church, Jarms said they welcome them just as they would an alcoholic.
“When they come to Christ, Christ changes their hearts; they can have victory over those temptations and struggles,” Jarms said.
Three miles away in the bustling downtown of Spokane, Westminster Congregational United Church has different views as to who a person is as an individual.
Andrea CastroLang, raised in a warm and loving Catholic family has pastored there since 2002, and enjoys the rare and beautiful community, she said.
After moving to Spokane with her husband and attending the church in 1990, the inclusive Protestant members supported her and prompted her to attend the San Francisco Theological Seminary for three and a half years in 1995, she said. Their support has influenced her efforts in public service as well as adopting an open and welcoming environment for new people, she said.
“At Westminster, we don’t believe that your sexual orientation is a cause for judgment,” she said. “We extend the welcome to all people as children of God.”
Focusing on God’s acceptance, she wonders why people spend so much energy condemning those who are different, she said.
“In the three short years of His ministry, the only people Jesus fought with were self-righteous, condemning, judgmental and cruel,” she said. “It’s not hate that is going to heal this world.”
Welcoming anyone to participate in all aspects of the church is important in order to support them and make them feel safe, Westminster church member Shelby Rothstrom said.
“I think it’s the foundation of Christianity,” she said. “It’s the way Jesus did it.”
Jarms view is similar in that Faith Bible Church welcomes people of all different backgrounds to attend church services as well, he said. The only difference would take place when they want to become members of the church, in which case, members would agree to uphold the principles of the church, he said.
Westminster Congregational allows permission to its members to disagree on certain topics and encourages dialogue among members to discuss important issues, like a rescheduling of early Sunday morning services.
“Every person matters; this church is invested in making sure that everybody is OK. I think people need to get past this right and wrong stuff,” said Anne Marie Floch, a lesbian member of Westminster and author of three books on spirituality. One of her books, “The Soul of a Woman,” describes different types of women in a poetic style.
Andrew Copley, a freshman at Eastern University and a member of Faith Bible Church, believes the issue has become a taboo topic among churches, he said.
“I just hear a lot that Christians hate gay people. We don’t. At the same time, it’s important to submit to what God says about gender roles and who we are,” Copley said.
Benjamin Harkrider, who is in his third year at Moody Bible Institute in the aviation program as well as a member of Faith Bible Church, also has the feeling that the secular world thinks that the church hates homosexuals.
“I think the proper biblical approach is to hate the sin but to love the person. We shouldn’t brush their sin aside but continue to love them, just as Christ loved us,” Harkrider said.
At Westminster, finding one’s identity and calling is important to all the members.
“In the society that I lived in (60s), you were never taught to be authentically who you were. You just did what the generations in front of you did,” Floch said. “Silence kills the ones who have to be silent.”





